Bonds That Make Us Organized
So how do these promptings relate to getting organized? Just imagine how clean your house would be and how organized your life would be if you followed every prompting you received every day. It wouldn’t be perfect of course because nothing is but everything would be so much easier. You would stop buying so much junk. You would put things away as soon as you were finished with them. You would finish getting the kitchen cleaned up before you started blogging. You would be able to accomplish more because you would never stay up too late and make yourself exhausted the next day. You would be able to gracefully juggle your responsibilities between your kids, home, work, exercise and play. You would be in charge of your own life instead of letting life charge over you.
Someone mentioned to me that the important part of happiness was our attitude. I agree. If someone cuts you off in traffic then you need to have a better attitude so you won’t lose your temper and hunt them down with a shot gun. “But what if you want to change your attitude,” I replied, “but you don’t know how?” What if you want to be happy and nice and forgiving and helpful but you don’t know how to make yourself become any of those things? If you’re not feeling it how do you make yourself feel it?
Picture this: If you were more organized because you were listening to the promptings you were receiving you would have left the house ten minutes early instead of ten minutes late. Someone pulling in front of you on the road wouldn’t have made you mad in the first place. There would be no temper to lose or attitude to change. It would not even occur to you to be upset. In fact you probably would have slowed down to let that person in front of you! So when someone cuts you off and you’re contemplating road rage, who is the one with the problem? YOU!!!
The wonderful thing about realizing you are the cause of all your misery in life is that you have to power to change it. Isn’t that enlightening? You don’t have to settle for depression and fear and loneliness and despair. All you have to do is start right now by doing what you know is right and you will begin feeling better immediately. You won’t be mad at anyone because there won’t be anything to be mad about!
I think that’s one of the reasons why organizing feels so good, because it’s the right thing to do. Have you ever wanted to stay in bed all day and read a book? Have you ever done it? I have and I didn’t enjoy it. I thought I would but the longer I laid there the worse I felt. I started getting a headache and I felt lazy and depressed. Compare that to how you feel after you have organized a closet or cleaned out your van. Did you feel depressed after doing those things? Of course not! You felt excited by what you accomplished! Getting organized just makes you hunger for more and more. Don’t stop now! Go clean out that fridge!!!
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6 Comments:
I have to laugh at the line "you would never stay up too late..." cause I'm afraid it's getting late and I'm still hanging out on the computer. I think I'll take your advice and go to bed. But I'm glad I read your blog first.
I am really enjoying your blog, so I hate for my first comment to sound argumentative, but you're assuming that we all have "organized promptings". Sadly, this is not true. My "promptings" tell me, "You have a few more minutes to get stuff done around the house. You can make it there in 7 minutes." Then I'm in a rush and one of those evil drivers you talk about. My promptings also tell me, "Leave all that junk right there now that you are finished with it -- you'll be more rested and feel like dealing with it later."
So, I guess for some of us the struggle is to NOT listen to our promptings and figure out how to re-wire our prompts!!
I know exactly what you're talking about. When you ignore the good promptings for so long then all you are left with is the bad ones. It can be confusing but once you start listening to and following the good thoughts again I think you will be surprised at how often they come.
And believe me, I am no expert on this. I just read one book and I'm trying to get it all figured out for myself! But this is my experience of how it works.
Ah, the wisdom of Lara!
I cleaned my fridge out yesterday though...and all my kitchen cupboards as well. -Then- I laid in bed and read a book for an hour. It was lovely!
Well said Lara! I always feel so good after completing an organizing project and am always hungering for more which is why I'm a hopeless junkie. I would love everyone to feel that euphoria. I find though that I need to stop listening to my organizing promptings sometimes in order to get OTHER things done...lol. Great post! Laura
Ummmm, what do you mean clean up the kitchen BEFORE blogging? I don't comprehend.
Sherry
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