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Wednesday, January 16, 2008

De-Clutter Your Liabilities


A Liability is anything that is a hindrance, or puts individuals at a disadvantage. To me it's anything that costs time and money to own and maintain.

What are some of the liabilities we own?
  • Our House - that's the biggest one. It costs us money every day but our bodies need one to live in so I think we'll keep it. The trick is to have the smallest, most easily maintainable home you can. We don't live in a huge house but it is a lot bigger than most people have or need. It is a very comfortable luxury and we are definitely paying for it. Stranger tells me every other day that we need to sell it and move. NO!!!


  • Our Kids - yep, we're keeping those too but we're hoping they grow up into assets.


  • Our Vehicles - We own a 17 year old pickup truck and an eight year old mini-van. Not to mention the Green Liver (it cost $50) that Stranger keeps out of town for work and a Jeep Wagoneer with a plow (it cost $300). Everything is paid for and Stranger is pretty good at fixing the little things himself. Still they cost money to run and maintain. If we were city types or if Stranger wasn't going to work at all hours of the night we would definitely try to get by with fewer vehicles. You know several months ago when I was talking about wanting a new van? We went shopping for one and couldn't stomach the idea of spending the money so I guess we'll keep driving the old one, which is perfectly fine, a while longer.


  • Our Computers - HUGE liabilities. We spend so much time and money on them that it's ridiculous. Of course I run my business off my computer so it could be considered an asset. When it makes me rich I'll let you know.


  • All the little gadgets and gizmos we have - My MP3 player that I can now not live without causes big headaches just keeping the music organized, finding the right earphones, fixing it when it's not working, etc. I also love my Bosch mixer/food processor/blender. I use it several times a day and I don't know how I would live without it but I'm sure I could find a way. I have a friend that makes homemade bread and mixes it all by hand. Imagine! If I had to do that I would spend more time whining than making bread. My headset telephone that's been broken and taped back together because life would not go on if I couldn't organize while I'm talking on the phone is another one of my favorite gadgets.


  • Need I mention my four sewing machines? - No, I'm not getting rid of any of them. If anything I would like to buy a few more. You know. For the four times a year that I actually sew.


  • The Bob Stroller - It is a definite luxury that I love, love, love and was worth every penny. It's not costing us any time or money to maintain but it certainly doesn't make us money and we could have bought something much cheaper. But then how long would it have lasted and how functional would it have been? Those are always big questions when making a purchase.


  • Our VHS video player just broke and we won't be buying another one. I'm wishing our DVD player would break too!


  • As far as any big extras we don't have them. We don't own a boat or a mobile home or a four wheeler or anything fun and exciting. Mostly because I'm too lazy to want the hassle and Stranger is too cheap to pay for them.


I can only think of a few things I would like to buy at this point of my life that doesn't involve finishing our house. I want a slicer/shredder attachment for my Bosch but I guess I don't really, REALLY need one. I just really want one. And new couches for my living room would be nice. Our eleven year old stained and ripped couches are not looking too cute these days. We weren't very smart when we picked them out because they show every little spot. That's the end of my wish list. Until I think of something else.

I'm sure you notice every day how much time and money your things are costing you. Is it worth it? What could you get rid of that you don't really need and is not bringing your life greater joy?

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8 Comments:

At January 17, 2008, Blogger Millie said...

The storage unit and most of the stuff in it, is what we're hoping to get rid of soon.

 
At January 17, 2008, Blogger Rosie said...

Hey, I too am hoping that my children become assests someday!
I love the girls aprons. Will you teach me to sew again? I used to love to sew. Miss E would love a cute apron. So would her Momma. I am an apron person but they are usually so uncomfortable. I keep using one that I have had for 18 years. It looks pretty bad!
I think the birthday party looked fun!
When is she getting baptized?

 
At January 17, 2008, Anonymous Laura said...

I really have appreciated your views on clutter and stuff. Keep the posts coming about it! I am trying to de-clutter my house in preparation for babe #3. We have a 3-bedroom home, you'd think that's big enough, but it still stresses me out, trying to figure out where to put all our junk when she gets here! I have a lot to learn!

 
At January 17, 2008, Blogger Anne said...

I love your posts! I try to write some just like it for my blog, but I always chicken out because I know my family members are reading, and they are all about stuff!! We are not, and they come to our house and stick their noses up at our sparsely furnished home! Oh well, their loss! ;o) We love how we live and how much time we have to spend with our kids! It is so freeing to not have "things" to take care of!! You are such an inspiration to so many people, keep up the good work!

Anne

 
At January 17, 2008, Blogger Kimberly said...

Oooo...thanks for reminding me what kind of stroller I want! =P

Every time we go through a box of diapers now, I fill it with stuff for the garage sale. So liberating!

 
At January 17, 2008, Blogger Marni said...

I had a friend come over the other day that is very good at de-junking. Since this is my year to get rid I've already done some tossing, but I still had questions for her here and there like "What do real people do with magazine?" (she said keep them for 3 months tops). It wasn't like the show Clean Sweep where they lay all their junk out and the cleaning nazi talks them into getting rid of everything. She was a great support and helped me feel more accountable. Was it uncomfortable? Yes, but we both knew it would be, and to do the getting rid I need to I need to feel that.

Anyway, good luck to all those tossing things out!

 
At January 17, 2008, Blogger Mercy said...

We are so on the same page when it comes to "stuff." We only have as little as we need. I am not a shopper, well, let me rephrase that. I am not a buyer. I shop and shop to get a good deal, to make sure we are really going to use and keep what we buy. But, usually my purchases are planned out. Because I toss things that don't work and I feel guilty when I just bought the dumb thing. It has taken me years to get to this point and I'm not sure if I would have gotten there if it wasn't for:
1.)our small house
2.)our income - which is increasing, but we've had some very tight times.
3.) The fact that I am lazy and don't want to deal with a bunch of junk all the time. Junk takes time and energy to deal with.

Anyway, I totally relate to your thinking. :-)

~Mercy~

 
At January 21, 2008, Blogger Annie said...

I have a couple of friends (who are sisters to each other) who have such issues with stuff, and buying and spending, etc. One knows she has a problem and is trying to fix it, the other is still wallowing in stuff.

Every time I start feeling anxious about my clutter, I think of them and it makes me feel so much better. They think I am an awesome housekeeper, and in comparison, I guess I am. Thanks for putting things in perspective, Lara!

 

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