Stranger stormed into the office the other night. He obviously had something on his mind, something he’d been thinking long and hard about.
The Conversation
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How long have you been in the Scout program?” he blurted out.
“I don’t know, about eight months,” I replied.
So they call you to work in the scouts and make you buy all those clothes and then you haven’t even been in there a year when they kick you out? (We just found a few days ago that I’ve been released from the Scouting program.)
No, they let me borrow the shirt.
Well, if they didn’t then you would have had to buy one right?
Yes.
That’s dumb that they would just get rid of you like that! Why do you have to cause so much trouble anyway?
Well, I’m a trouble maker. What can I say?
Then you’re just going to cause trouble somewhere else, no matter what your new calling is!
That’s true. Are you sorry you married such a trouble maker?
No, I just can’t believe they would get rid of you like that. I didn’t get rid of you!
Ahhhh, that is so sweet! It’s comforting to know that no matter how much trouble I cause, my husband will never get rid of me. Take that Cub Scouts!!! You didn’t want me but Stranger does and that’s all that matters.
The BackgroundIn my Church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, you don’t choose your callings. You are given a calling by the Bishop, the local leader, and whatever you are asked to do, you do it. Of course you are welcome to say no but don't. Just do what you are asked to do.
When we first moved here I was called to be one of two Wolf Leaders in my son Victor’s den. We had about 6 boys when we started and over the last eight months our den grew to 14 and more. I lost count somewhere along the way and things got so crazy that I didn’t even recognize or know the names of all our boys! I showed up and helped the best I could with the activities amid the commotion while trying to keep my 1 and 6 year olds out of harms way. Then we packed up and went home exhausted. We needed help ok? There is a problem, let’s solve it. That’s all I was asking. I don’t think that qualifies me as a trouble maker but I know that’s the way I come across at times.
And in the defense of the other Scout leaders, no one was getting rid of me. At least I’d like to imagine they weren’t! I think it’s natural to feel a little rejected whenever you get released from a calling. “What! I’m not good enough for you? You don’t want me anymore?” But life continues and I will go on to annoy and irritate the next group of people I am called to serve with. Hey, at least they don’t have to live with me!
Labels: My Life, The Weird Family